High Fever Part III

After my son fully recovered from viral fever on 23/11. Myself fell into sick on the following days until today (5th day).. fever, sore throat, body bone pain.. according to doctor, viral fever can be contagious to anyone. Yesterday (Sunday), we attended Ashley's calligraphy competition in The Mines Exhibition Centre, I was not feeling so well, what to do? I have to support Ashley and she insisted to go for it. Bus, after her competition, Ashley told me that she is very cold, not feeling so well.. OMG! she has got fever 38C... so we went home and straight to clinic. After medicine, she feels better, but in the midnight, her temperature was 38.5 C... sweat a alot and quickly get her to change her shirt... this morning, her temperature was normal. But, after back from tuition class, her temperature was back to 38.5C again.. she refused to eat, and telling me that she has no appetite..I only can feed her medicine directly...few minutes later, I'm worried about my son although his fever just recovered, when I hugged him, his body is... hot.. Huh, how come like that one!!! .. I did the temperature test on him, the temperature is 37.6C... what happened to my family? Why the virus still around us and attack us for so long..

Privacy

Just very MAD at those people do not know what is privacy!! I am seriously very very mad now!! What's happening? Let me tell you...

Since 2 months ago, my MIL's sister shifted to near my house (same row. luckily not next to me)... And she is now everyday lunch and dinner in my house!! I initially don't really like her because of her personality, damn annoying me.. what say so?  We hardly move far away because hubby and I don't like people disturb our life... and last year, she insisted to buy a house near to us.. and my MIL helped her to LOOK a house here...
and this is ended of the buying house and she is permanent staying next to us...

Now, everyday she comes to my house, go to my kids room, my room touch this and that.. I really don't like such people get involved my life and I need privacy.. I have been staying here for 4 years and I feel comfortable but ever since she moved to our area, she everyday come to my house and trying to be "helpful", and I really don't need that "helpful hand".. all the while I do the house cores myself, and I never ask her to do so... adjust my room's thing, adjust my kids room's table.. adjust my garden plants.. I'm gonna burst!!!!

Friends, advise me, what can I do? If I tell my MIL she sure will say, aunt only help you.. a typical MIL I have too... I DAMN MADDDDDD now!!! I was just thinking, this is my house why should I give faces to them and I can just voice out and ask her to stop to do so, right? But my hubby stop me!! HOW lar??!!!!!


 

Miscarriage

Supposed my expectation on 16-9-2010, we were happily and preparing everything for the 3rd baby. Especially my hubby, he was super duper excited for welcoming the baby, we were discuss we must throw a big party for this baby and factory will be closed as this was our plan for 2 years ago.

Unfortunately, on 8/2 morning I admitted hospital, doctor told that baby no more heart beat, baby size does not match the actual date..... hubby is the one who hurt the most at that time... my 2 kids were sad they keep on asking where is our "mei mei"? Hubby & me was thinking the best way to explain to them... luckily they are very understanding and behave themselves as I need to sit for confinement for 2 weeks, which mean I can't simply go anywhere & eat CNY junk food during CNY...

I told myself, I will marked this date 8/2/2010 in my life... She has left us, she doesn't want to become my baby and our family... what to do? ... life still go on....

Why we change kindergarden for our son ...

Due to few incidents happened to my daughter in pre-school. Hubby and me decided to change the pre-school for my son next year.

Can you imagine a teacher was taped my daughter's mouth? can you imagine a teacher pulled my daughter's hair by asking her? can you imagine a teacher use an umbrella to beat my daughter's leg? My daughter did complaint to me many times about teacher taping her mouth... i called up the school but the principle and teacher denied. OK.. I thought my daughter telling lie... then last 2 weeks my daughter complaint to me the teacher pulled her hair... I thought she telling lie to me again.. I don't bother at all... after the next day.. she called me up, say the teacher using an umbrella beat her leg... but this time, I don't bother is true or not.. I got the feelings that thing is very serious... my daughter won't tell me lie again... i called up my husband and my husband can't tahan already, because all the while he doesn't want to get involved into all these complaints. And I also dont know what to do because the teacher and principle always denied that nothing is happened. I suggested to call up the school HQ to make complain rather to call up the principle and teacher, of course they don't admit what they have done to my daughter. My husband write-in and call up to the so called "more than 100 of franchise throughout Malaysia" pre-school. And the immediate next morning the franchiser came all the way from Mon't Kiara to have meeting with my husband and me. (they panic because my husband from Media industry). Anyway, everything is settled, my daughter and son still continue to study in the school, because my daughter is going to complete her study in 2 months time... so let her play with her friends But, my son we will transfer him to another pre-school next year onwards. I found this kindergarden www.littleinventor.net where near our house. Anyone knows about this school? What is your opinion?

Besides, there is a 1 month holidays program on November, plan to let my daughter to join in their class which cost RM300. Syllabus including cooking, baking, planting, swimming, playing sands, crafting and studying of course. And they will provide healthy food menu for parents ...... Sounds not bad ya ~

Am I Busy or Lazy?

Am i busy or lazy lately? I don't even blogging for almost 3 months but I did create another blog recently. You may visit if you are curious www.mydeliciousbakery.blogspot.com Never think of doing this but due to many of my friends requested me to do so and convenient for them to view and order.

Lazy to blog because too many things happened around my families... sometimes just hard to tell.... so i rather stopped blogging... hopefully those unlucky things are past and let's the good one to me, parents, family... what i can do is pray harder for everyone... hope everyone stays healthy and wealthy...

30 minutes for blogging

Now is the time for "blogging"... 30 minutes later I need to pick up my daughter from art class which held on every tuesday... later on, i need to travel to KL and delivery cheesecake for my customer... a little amount of income.. not everyday, but better than no $$$ into my pocket!! ha ha.. my concept is.. as long as the food is nice, price doesn't matter... the most important is my customer enjoy the food.. and they can recommend to other friends... because cooking and baking is my hobby since Form 4...

Guess what, when i drop off my daughter just now, my son was crying in the car, he said he wants to follow jiejie go to school... but i feel abit pai seh.. never pay for his art class fee... don dare to request 1 more time to let my son for free lesson again.. hehe ( i put my son to free art class last week )... so i have to fetch him to bakery shop for window shopping just now.. and he forgot about the art class thing ... now he is lying on the bed and watching "tom & jerry"... haha.. that's why i can blogging.. i will try my best to blog everyday from now... and will upload more photos soon...

ok, i have to stop from here, is time to pick up my daughter...

I am back !

I have been few months never update my blog due to working pressure and the position killed my life... mentally disturbed by the management, the new promoted position is good for me but I don't think I need to sacrify my family on weekend ~ after 1 month of sitting on the position, i decided to tender a letter~~ yes!!! hooray ~~ I'm not working anymore and sitting at home with kids and spend more time with them since April 2009. I feel so good now eventhough no income. I rather torture by my kids also don want to torture by the Dato & Datin ~~

I will not back to work so soon as i need to fully recover my health and refresh my working attitude then only i look for a job.... because Doctor mentioned that I have working depression... so, that's the reason why I resigned...

After 2 months resting at home, in fact my daily housework routine is very very busy just for my 2 kids ...

7am - clean the floor
7.30am - prepare kids school bag, breakfast, water, uniform
7.45am - wake them up, and make milk for them
8.am - need to keep calling them to brush their teeth, change uniform
8.15am - fetch them go to school
8:30am - go to morning market
9am - back home, and wash their clothes
- breakfast, then prepare lunch for them before they back home
11:30am - go to school and pick them up
11:40am - kids take shower
12noon - lunch with 2 kids
12:30pm - let them rest for 30 minutes then need to accompany them to do their homework.
2.00pm - force them to sleep, and they will normally wake up at 5pm
2:30pm - prepare dinner
3:30pm - Online
4:00pm - time to cook dinner
5:30pm - kids dinner
6:00pm - mop the floor
6:30pm - rest
7:00pm - dinner with husband
8:00pm - is time for me to rest !!~~~~~

Nokia E66

Got this surpised gift from hubby during velentines day~:)

Pregnancy and Delivery Story Tag

I have been tagged by Agnes for the tag...

1. WAS YOUR FIRST PREGNANCY PLANNED?
No

2. WERE YOU MARRIED AT THE TIME?
No.

3. WHAT WERE YOUR REACTIONS?
"Huh... pregnancy test kit got problem, must get a better brand and expensive one!!" (whose knows after 2nd test, still don't believe and went to clinic at the end)

4. WAS ABORTION AN OPTION FOR YOU?
No

5. HOW OLD WERE YOU?
26 years old

6. HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOU WERE PREGNANT?
Period overdue

7. WHO DID YOU TELL FIRST? Hubby

8. DID YOU WANT TO FIND OUT THE SEX? No

9. DUE DATE? Expected Due Date on 21 June 2003. Date of Delivered on 10 June 2003.

10. DID YOU HAVE MORNING SICKNESS?
Nope

11. WHAT DID YOU CRAVE?
Rice, must take 2 plates of rice

12. WHO/WHAT IRRITATED YOU THE MOST?
Sweating

13. WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CHILD SEX?
Princess

14. DID YOU WISH YOU HAD THE OPPOSITE SEX OF WHAT YOU WERE GETTING?
No

15. HOW MANY POUNDS DID YOU GAIN THROUGHOUT THE PREGNANCY?
45kg to 75kg (30kg) overweight

16. DID YOU HAVE A BABY SHOWER?
No. We had simple buffet for relatives, and few of best friends only

17. WAS IT A SURPRISE OR DID YOU KNOW?
Nope

18. DID YOU HAVE ANY COMPLICATIONS DURING YOUR PREGNANCY?
Yes. Urine Tract Infection and High Sugar Level

19. WHERE DID YOU GIVE BIRTH?
Gleneagles Intan Medical Centre (cost me RM14k)

20. HOW MANY HOURS WERE YOU IN LABOR?
I was induced and in labour ward on 09-06-2003 @ 5pm, till the next day 10-06-2003 @ 8am still no contractions yet, about 11am contractions started, till 1pm due to baby heart beat stop, emergency to operation ward... in fact after 11am.. dono what is happening coz too much of funny gas! and woke up on the 4th day after gave birth. (in very dangerous condition because i only woke up on the 4th day and little baby admitted to ICU for 10 days)

21. WHO DROVE YOU TO THE HOSPITAL?
Hubby. He was with me throughout the journey! He worried, coz i was suffered and baby in ICU, furthermore parents in law in Penang. Luckily my parents were there with him.

22. WHO WATCHED YOU GIVE BIRTH?
Doctor not allowed hubby to watch due to emergency c-section.

23. WAS IT NATURAL OR C-SECTION?
Ceasarean Section

24. DID YOU TAKE MEDICINE TO EASE THE PAIN?
Nothing

27. HOW MUCH DID YOUR CHILD WEIGH?
2.5 kg

28. WHEN WAS YOUR CHILD ACTUALLY BORN ? 4 June 2007 30. WHAT DID YOU NAME
HIM/HER?
Ashley Low Zi Xin

31. HOW OLD IS YOUR FIRST BORN TODAY?
She is 5 year 8 months today

All mommies are welcome to pick the following tag to share their story with me ~~~~

Love Letter from Hubby

Very suprised to receive hubby's love letter last week. He told me that he doesn't know how to tell me, but he choosed to write a letter to me to express his feelings on me.

Hubby will be away to Bali on next march 2009 for his "Instructor Diving Course" for 3 weeks. I guess he feels that i'm unhappy because he will be away for us for 3 weeks. Yes, I feel abit insecure that my hubby is taking up his instructor course. It sounds good yea~ but after a qualified instructor he will be very often to dive, to teach every weekend. Of course I feel very insecure in our life in future. No one can guarantee our marriage life in future, who knows he met someone better than me right? That's why, In the letter, he asked me to be more confident on him, no matter how he would only think of me, think of his 2 adoarble kids... and especially i'm a understanding wife of him, coz he knows that not everyone can did or allow the husband to go to dive so often. Even his diver friends did ask the same question to him everytime when he goes to dive. (how come your wife never stop you to dive everytime? and how come can give permission? can teach us?)

What to do? ~~ Diving is my hubby's hobbies for long time ago. As a wife, I have to support him and I can't stop him, because I don't want him to regret in his life. For me, I only can pray everyday for him, dive safety.. and hope our relationship can

New Ipod Nano from Hubby

I was having lunch with colleagues in old town PJ. Suddenly my phone rang.

Hubby : Harloo, B ah, what colour you like ah, got black, light blue, silver, and pink, which one you like ah?

Me : Huh, why? what you buy? why choose colour one? ( in my heart i was thinking of hubby getting me a new car meh? so surprise one geh?) errrr.... black la, depends on what you buy la, if car i like black or silver la... depends la....

Hubby : aiyah..., i asked you what color you like why you tell me so many things.. ok la ok la.. black colour ok!!! bye

(after hang up, i was thinking la, shit la, what car he want to buy wo~~ why got pink colour one.. lucky i told him i want black, safer ma!! hahaha)

At 6:30pm waiting for hubby to come down from office and go home together (we are working in the same area) later, I saw him keep on smiling to me and walking towards me..

Me : why you asked me what color i like wo... why got pink color one? you buy me civic ah? but civic where got pink color?

Hubby : You hope longer la.... nahhh, your birthday present this year...

Me : ahhhh, what is this? why so small one?

Hubby : Ipod la, you dont know meh.. outdated la u!! you like it or not?

Me : ohh, thank you so much, i like it so much, by the way, what is this for? and how come you also have one , and yours are bigger than mine???

Hubby : hiya, like that you also dont know...you can listen to songs when you waiting for me and you wont feel boring while waiting for me and you can also upload videos, or photos into it. i teach you when reach home la... oh, yours are called Ipod Nano, mine is different one, bigger....

Me : oh ic... ok la, you teach me tonight ah... thank you so much daddy... so what you buy me next year ah...

Hubby : hiya, you ah, i buy you present you got so many questions.. you ask again, i dont buy next year...

Me : no la, ask only ma.. canot one meh....

See, this will be my birthday present for this year. Hubby preferred to buy me those technologies toys than handbags for my birthday present lo, he said woh, i can learn new things rather than he buy me handbags or watches. But he still will buy me handbags and shoes sometimes. Maybe he think that it is not meaningful if he buy me handbags again for my birthday so he rather buy me camera or ipod.

New Job!

I was in construction company for more than 7 years. So happen, I resigned from a Big 5 company and join a totally new brand singapore company (environmental/waste management) in Malaysia. And today, I tender my resignation from this company for the tenure of 6 months here. Why? I love this working environment, I love the flexibility working hours, I love is because 5 days work. I love everything here. But the stablelization of the company. Therefore, I forced to leave and look for better career, liable, and stablelization company. Yes!! I found a new job!! back to construction company again, and I feel I have more confident and experienced in construction company and I have to back to 5 1/2 days work. Construction always the same, because projects site are running 7 days. I have to keep on track for the project. Is very tired if you are currently work 5 days a week, and now back to 5 1/2 days a week. I actually wanted to refuse the offer because of 5 1/2 days but my hubby asked me to accept the offer. He don't mind I work on Saturday because we actually work for our commitments and for our kids. If a company is unsecure, then I have no point to stay in the company eventhough it is a 5 days work company. This time, I listened to my husband and I accepted the offer. Many friends advised me not to accept the offer because I have to work on Saturday. I think I better listened to my husband and he is very understanding hubby so far. Perhaps I love my new job and wish myself all the best!