Why we change kindergarden for our son ...

Due to few incidents happened to my daughter in pre-school. Hubby and me decided to change the pre-school for my son next year.

Can you imagine a teacher was taped my daughter's mouth? can you imagine a teacher pulled my daughter's hair by asking her? can you imagine a teacher use an umbrella to beat my daughter's leg? My daughter did complaint to me many times about teacher taping her mouth... i called up the school but the principle and teacher denied. OK.. I thought my daughter telling lie... then last 2 weeks my daughter complaint to me the teacher pulled her hair... I thought she telling lie to me again.. I don't bother at all... after the next day.. she called me up, say the teacher using an umbrella beat her leg... but this time, I don't bother is true or not.. I got the feelings that thing is very serious... my daughter won't tell me lie again... i called up my husband and my husband can't tahan already, because all the while he doesn't want to get involved into all these complaints. And I also dont know what to do because the teacher and principle always denied that nothing is happened. I suggested to call up the school HQ to make complain rather to call up the principle and teacher, of course they don't admit what they have done to my daughter. My husband write-in and call up to the so called "more than 100 of franchise throughout Malaysia" pre-school. And the immediate next morning the franchiser came all the way from Mon't Kiara to have meeting with my husband and me. (they panic because my husband from Media industry). Anyway, everything is settled, my daughter and son still continue to study in the school, because my daughter is going to complete her study in 2 months time... so let her play with her friends But, my son we will transfer him to another pre-school next year onwards. I found this kindergarden www.littleinventor.net where near our house. Anyone knows about this school? What is your opinion?

Besides, there is a 1 month holidays program on November, plan to let my daughter to join in their class which cost RM300. Syllabus including cooking, baking, planting, swimming, playing sands, crafting and studying of course. And they will provide healthy food menu for parents ...... Sounds not bad ya ~

I am back !

I have been few months never update my blog due to working pressure and the position killed my life... mentally disturbed by the management, the new promoted position is good for me but I don't think I need to sacrify my family on weekend ~ after 1 month of sitting on the position, i decided to tender a letter~~ yes!!! hooray ~~ I'm not working anymore and sitting at home with kids and spend more time with them since April 2009. I feel so good now eventhough no income. I rather torture by my kids also don want to torture by the Dato & Datin ~~

I will not back to work so soon as i need to fully recover my health and refresh my working attitude then only i look for a job.... because Doctor mentioned that I have working depression... so, that's the reason why I resigned...

After 2 months resting at home, in fact my daily housework routine is very very busy just for my 2 kids ...

7am - clean the floor
7.30am - prepare kids school bag, breakfast, water, uniform
7.45am - wake them up, and make milk for them
8.am - need to keep calling them to brush their teeth, change uniform
8.15am - fetch them go to school
8:30am - go to morning market
9am - back home, and wash their clothes
- breakfast, then prepare lunch for them before they back home
11:30am - go to school and pick them up
11:40am - kids take shower
12noon - lunch with 2 kids
12:30pm - let them rest for 30 minutes then need to accompany them to do their homework.
2.00pm - force them to sleep, and they will normally wake up at 5pm
2:30pm - prepare dinner
3:30pm - Online
4:00pm - time to cook dinner
5:30pm - kids dinner
6:00pm - mop the floor
6:30pm - rest
7:00pm - dinner with husband
8:00pm - is time for me to rest !!~~~~~

The Mid Valley X-Mas Decoration

The dad very excited to bring 2 kids to midvalley suddenly last 3 weeks. NO matter how tired i am, since the father insisted to bring them... why not? because the 2 kids stay at home everyday without going anywhere during this school holidays. (especially the dad very lazy type every weekend he never mention want to bring them for shopping on weekend one! but a month ago, the dad has changed, and he now wake up very early and bring us to morning market and to have breakfast with the kids and me.... but i know, the dad wants to cheer me up, and he realised that family is important........when talk about this, i think of my cousin brother.. everyone has changed after he left the world.... everyone is trying to get closer nowadays... everyone is trying to cheer up... ).

Happy Birthday to me 27-07-2008

Yea, is my birthday on Sunday!

the 2 kids are more excited than me when they saw the cake.

Ian's favourite Thomas and Friends

Lovely sister & brother

In Leisure Mall

Too Smart of Ian Boy!!

Guess what are both doing there? *teng teng teng**

Ian wanted to drink water!!!!

See what? I just want to drink water. Mommy next time please dont be so busy with the camera, otherwise I will fall down from the "yellow basket"!!

Daddy's Birthday 1/6/2008

1st June is Daddy's birhtday.

On the way back to Penang hometown @ R&R area

We were stopped at rest area as Daddy was driving for the whole journey, so I suggested to Daddy & Mommy in the car :" Daddy, you tired or not? you want to have a cup of Kopi? If you are tired, you better stop at rest area, so hor, i can go to playground and play, besides that hor, daddy you want to buy lollipop or not? because didi has no sweet to eat leh while i'm playing at playground, oh mommy, remember to take photo woh" (no photo attached at playground because ashley almost forgot about the "playground" while she was eating lollipop, haha)

Our God-daddy & God-mommy

Our God-daddy & God-mommy (yi zheong & yi-yi)

Mommy, Ian & me

Daddy was away last week. 3 of us back to Gong-gong & Po-po's house for the whole weekend. Unfortunately, while Daddy was leaving to Redang Island, my little brother was fall into sick. (according to daddy, he said everytime when he wants to outstation sure one of us (mommy, brother & me) fall into sick. Ian was having high fever till 39.5 on last friday night till the next morning.

The next day morning, Mommy alone brought Ian & me to clinic. (I can see mommy very panic, so I tried to don't be naughty that time) Doctor was told that Ian got virus infection. When we were in the clinic, so happened Gong gong & Po Po came to our house and called where were we. So, Mommy told them that we are in clinic then only both of them very panic drove to clinic and meet us. Because Po-po knews that Mommy sure will panic and don't know how to handle 2 of us. (but, Mommy you are well done u know, you were so stable and steady) After came out from Clinic, Gong-gong straight away fetched us back to Titiwangsa's house. (my favourite)

The whole weekend, Po-po really take very good care of Ian boy. And now, Ian is almost recovered from his virus infection BUT now is my turn!! I'm having fever, sore throad today and Mommy also having sorethroad due to not enough of sleep for the whole weekend.

Althought we were busy with Ian, but we had a wonderful weekend with Gong-gong, Po-po, Yi-yi & Yi-zheong (yiyi husband) !! Ooooo, due to we alway sick average once a month, mommy & yi-yi decided Ian & me "shiong kai" to Yi-yi. They wished that Ian & me can reduce the sick.

Hopefully me and mommy can recover asap as we are going back to Penang (daddy's hometown) tomorrow!!

Our Super Hero Daddy is away .......

My hubby is away for diving these few days. He looks very worried that I can't handle our 2 kids while he is away. Especially after we moved to new house he don't allow me to drive or stay at home alone anymore, he said outside is not safe anymore. He rather fetch me to work everyday! (I feel the hapiness, hehehe) In order to let hubby not to worried us, I told him that my parents will come and bring us back to their house till he back to KL. (my parents also don't allow me to drive and stay at home alone with 2 kids)

Last night, fetch hubby to meet his divers gang at McDonalds. While waiting his gang, we were having a conversation below:- (see how mature is Ashley for her age of coming 5)

Daddy : Xin, while Daddy go diving you don't make Mommy angry ah. You be a good gal ok?

Ashley : Yea la, I know lah! Daddy, you promised me you will buy me a camera & PC for my
birthday present hor? the camera is a real one or fake one?

Daddy : (speechless for awhile).

Mommy : Of course real one lah! Daddy won't buy fake one.

Ashley : (smile from her heart)

Daddy : So, at school, you don't naughty again ok? If not, Principle will call Mommy again, then
I won't buy you camera.

Ashley : Daddy, I won't naughty again. (suddenly, she saw 2 kids running and screaming
loudly). Mommy, these 2 kids very noisy lah, I "beh tahan" them lah, SO
NAUGHTY!! Not like me, sitting here quietly. See, their Daddy & Mommy never look
after them one. Later ah, stranger come and catch them!!!

Mommy : Yea loh, you don't playful like them, if stranger catch you away, Mommy will cry till
die leh!

Daddy : mommy if you don't die, i will make you die if my daughter kena kidnap!! and you
don't have to come back!!

Ashley : Mommy, I think i will die also my hand will kena chop by stranger!! Those stranger
very "busuk" one!!!! mommy, you have to look after me u know!!!

Mommy : Don't worry, Mommy sure protect you one!!

Ashley : (smiling~~~~~)

From the above conversation, Ashley also know that outside is not safe. I know is not good to brain wash her by saying outside is not safe this and that. But, no choice, the fact is like that. We tell her the kidnapped news from newspaper, and show her the photos. Tell her not to accept people's compliments even they mentioned that they are daddy or mommy's friend. At least, she knows that stranger cannot be trusted. This is how I want her to protect herself.